Who Are You
I’ve been reading a fabulous book entitled “The Untethered Soul.” This question is posed early on in the book. Much of what the book brings to light isn’t what you are, but what you are not.
Fifteen years ago if you had asked me that question I would have come back with a whole host of responses. “I’m Molly. I’m a runner. I’m a woman. I’m a terrible cook. I’m messy. I’m married. I am an educator.” That list could go on and on.
Today when asked that question I would comfortably land on a response that back then would
have appeared meaningless and frankly, I’d have thought, a little bit “whoo whoo.”
Who am I? I respond simply “I am.”
The older I get the more aware I become of how often we define ourselves by the physical forms, circumstances and people around us. “I am fit. I am rich. I am married.”
The interesting thing to consider, though, is the same person who can now say that “I am the founder of Girls on the Run, I am 49 years old and I am single” was at one time the same person who said, “I race road bikes, I am 35 years old and I am married.” The form, circumstances and people in our lives change, but the one constant is the me inside there, going along for the ride.
Take a look in the mirror sometime. Sure…you see a body, some eyes, the reflection of the room behind you…but down inside the physical form reflected in the mirror…lives the YOU inside of there. The you that stays constant, is forever present and knowing life through the experience we call being human.
When I focus on the me in there, an internal kind of giggle bubbles up. When I stop thinking, I can literally feel the essence of the me riding around inside. Call me crazy, but the incessant talk that goes on all the time (yes we all have it)…well…someone has to listen to it. Who listens? I do…the I that never changes. The I inside. The I hitching a ride for the length of time my body is in existence. The thoughts change because of the context, experiences and circumstances around me, but the me who listens, never does.
To experience the essence of you…try this small experiment this week. When referencing your body, remove the possessive from your sentence. For example, instead of saying “I am tired,” try saying “the body is tired.” Instead of saying “I feel hungry,” say “the body feels hungry.”
Women, in our culture, identify so much of our essence, being, selves with the body. See how you respond or don’t respond when you say “the body is stuffed” rather than “I am stuffed.” See what happens when you say “the head hurts” rather than “I have a headache.” The need to identify ourselves with the physical form slips away and we can more objectively observe the body as something to experience, nurture, care for and appreciate. We no longer identify our worth with the physical.
This ability to observe how we internalize, bring in and identify with the messages of the outside world is at the core of what Girls on the Run is all about. We help girls to become “the boss of their own brains.” We give girls the tools to step back from the whirling world around and examine with open eyes, the messages they not only receive from “out there”, but turn into those they hear on the inside. The outside world requires that we fill in the blank “I am…”with a descriptor of our physical manifestation whereas Girls on the Run gives girls the freedom to not only NOT fill in the blank but remove the blank altogether and simply know the joy of being.
This is deep stuff. I’m not sure I would have “gotten it” when I was younger…heck even just a year ago. But I’d like you to give it a try. Lean into it. Trust the process. Let me know how speaking of your body in the third person feels. Does it make you laugh? Does it feel weird? Does it allow you to see that you are NOT your body, but the spirit that resides within? Does the body become something you appreciate? Let me know at molly@girlsontherun.org.
Spring Season was Terrific! Let’s get ready for Fall…
Thank you to the wonderful women who volunteered their time to make the Spring Season of Girls On The Run a perfect success. You are special and appreciated.
Are YOU a person who wants to help girls grow to reach for their full potential? If so, I’d love to talk to you about getting involved. To coach, you would need to be able volunteer for 2 hours a week (2 days a week for an hour each time) in the timeframe of after-school (2:00 or 3:00). Call me and we can talk about it: Joanne Crosetti 530/333-3500.
Happy Summer to all. See you in the Fall. Season starts around September 20.
Girls On The Run 5K Run Results
OK, everyone…behold the run results! Some names were very hard to read on the tags, so I apologize now if I butchered your name! Congratulations to all of you. It was a joy to watch you cross the finish line. -Joanne
23’56 – Ronelle Pedrano
24’02 – Marie Swain
24’35 – Sarah Thorne
24’40 – Lauren Anspacin
26’26 – Jessica Depree
27’24 – Elizabeth Rose
28’01 - Valeria Martinez
28’11 – Amy Tejada
28’14 – Scotti Murphy
28’37 – Sarah Schaper
28’46 – Kayla Warner
28’46 – Brittany Wright
30’30 – Chrissy Edginton
30’40 – Holly Tower
31’00 – Savana Handin
31’06 – Maghan Maberry
31’25 – Madison Dodds
31’27 – Kiley Wood
31’37 – Samantha Renaud
31’53 – Sarah Grayson
32’10 – Areli Espinoza
32’10 – Kelly Espinoza
32’11 – Hannah Drechsel
32’11 – Shay Warren
32’34 – Ashley Maclean
32’36 – Summer Rainey
32’48 – Bianca Benner
32’51 – Savannah Thompson
32’52 – Mariah Parker
33’24 – Hayden McNutt
33’24 – Hailey Perez
33’28 – Sayla Mussmann
34’12 – Madeline Overton
34’45 – Haley Earnest
35’52 – Meghan Bergwall
36’19 – Hannah Hyatt
36’23 – Kailey Wilson
37’23 – Tania Nunez
37’24 – Jordan Verdugo
37’28 – Kaitlyn Harrington
37’34 – Kaitlyn Mussmann
37’46 – Samara Pearson
38’03 – Abigail Stalker
38’29 – Sarah Cochren
38’29 – Dakota Bishop
38’38 – Autumn Monson
39’36 – Destiny Ciceu
39’54 – Courtney Warren
39’54 – Madison Molgaard
40’15 – Emma Dooley
40’24 – Ashton Neman
40’26 – Brooke Macgregor
40’49 – Sadie Lewis
40’59 – Isabella Elizarraras
41’10 – Taylor Hill
41’11 – Shaina Benner
41’12 – Avery Jones
41’17 – Kaiya Saelee
41’17 – Sarah Blalock
41’22 – Colleen Delago
42’12 – Analyse Melby
42’25 – Zoe Talkington
42’41 – Taleigh Glass
44’13 – Ella Hebrard
44’13 – Katie Cook
44’34 – Alyssa Pauling
44’38 – Caitlin Kizer
44’40 – Lexie Allen
44’42 – Jennifer Valdez
45’05 – Leslie Edwards
45’27 – Jessica Hogan
45’34 – Cassidy Harguth
45’41 – Mikayla Ciceu
45’47 – Saige Pyle
45’54 – Lexi Grade
45’54 – Amaya Chase
45’59 – Karlee Maberry
47’07 – Isabel Chavez
47’08 – Taya York
47’08 – Gracie Sawyers
47’15 – Natalie Lesner
47’25 – Aspen Goforth
47’26 – Katelyn Burns
47’36 – Deanna Valdez
47’37 – Alexis Gould
48’08 – Anabella Crosetti
48’10 – Katie Hughes
48’20 – Deirdre Spillane
48’53 – Kristina Burk
48’54 – Zoe Hamilton
49’00 – Emily Bellomo
49’00 – Kirra Covington
49’00 – Brooke Niemer
49’07 – Velvet Sharpe
49’09 – Winter Clavell
49’14 – Alison Burdett
49’35 – Jaki Batman
50’18 – Ayla Clark
50’19 – Tayelor Poyadue
51’20 – Alyssa Packer
51’22 – Rachael Allen
52’04 – Aliyah Hocker
52’05 – Jordan Reid
52’05 – Savannah Sanderson
54’05 – Ryeley Karmann
54’47 – Christina Balding
55’00 – Esther Naya
59’45 – Caitlyn Parks
1:02’53 – Amaya Pauling
1:02’55 – Natasha Wilson
Spring Season – 2010!
Welcome to our Spring 2010 season for Girls On The Run. We have 9 programs up and running …pun intended! :)
This is our largest season yet with 150 (approx) girls in the program. We have 18 awesome women who are volunteering their time to bring Girls On The Run to life at each school location and we are so grateful.
So….let us give a cheer for this wonderful program and these wonderful women. The impact that this program is having on young girls will be seen in years to come as these girls learn to reach for their full potential and become the beautiful, confident, women that they are meant to be.
SO….1-2-3 Cheer: GIRLS ON THE RUN IS SO MUCH FUN!
New Balance Girls On The Run 5K Results
| Number | Time | Name | |||||||
| 17 | 26:25 | Brittany Wright | |||||||
| 23 | 29:00 | Allysia Viveros | |||||||
| 26 | 29:05 | Savannah Feagin | |||||||
| 63 | 29:57 | Valeria Marinez | |||||||
| 14 | 30:33 | Samantha Renaud | |||||||
| 75 | 30:38 | Sarah Schaper | |||||||
| 2 | 30:41 | Maghan Maberry | |||||||
| 73 | 30:55 | Shay Warren | |||||||
| 5 | 31:19 | Chrissy Edginton | |||||||
| 84 | 31:20 | Gabby Powell | |||||||
| 36 | 31:57 | Katie Bowman | |||||||
| 18 | 32:00 | Samantha Burke | |||||||
| 71 | 32:10 | Alex Isheirn | |||||||
| 88 | 32:13 | Aspen Goforth | |||||||
| 130 | Linda Hendricks | ||||||||
| 31 | 32:31 | Jennifer Valdez | |||||||
| 124 | 32:40 | Patty Hunt | |||||||
| 15 | 33:22 | Isabella Elizarraras | |||||||
| 68 | 33:23 | Leticia Leal | |||||||
| 39 | 33:50 | Areli Espinoza | |||||||
| 38 | 33:51 | Kelly Espinoza | |||||||
| 60 | 34:22 | Jodie Capps | |||||||
| 61 | 34:25 | Kayla Warner | |||||||
| 116 | 34:34 | Jack Woodruff | |||||||
| 82 | 34:50 | Lexie Allen | |||||||
| 11 | 34:54 | Daria Drake | |||||||
| 62 | 35:25 | Seaiga Alarya | |||||||
| 125 | 35:58 | Brenna Stansberry | |||||||
| 123 | 35:59 | Teresa Flint | |||||||
| 8 | 36:04 | Savannah Thompson | |||||||
| 20 | 36:08 | Kaitlyn Mussmann | |||||||
| 44 | 37:11 | Mariah Evans | |||||||
| 45 | 37:44 | Courtney Berry | |||||||
| 46 | 37:46 | Destiny Ciceu | |||||||
| 64 | 37:50 | Alyssa Pauling | |||||||
| 30 | 37:52 | Caitlin Kizer | |||||||
| 87 | 38:20 | Madison Molgaard | |||||||
| 85 | 38:27 | Amanda Domb | |||||||
| 9 | 38:30 | Leslie Edwards | |||||||
| 79 | 38:48 | Breanna Barnetche | |||||||
| 29 | 38:52 | Joce Scarry | |||||||
| 27 | 39:10 | Raven Verville | |||||||
| 77 | 39:60 | Erica Parent | |||||||
| 72 | 39:18 | Courtney Warren | |||||||
| 16 | 39:29 | Kiley Wood | |||||||
| 70 | 39:44 | Nicole DeGenaro | |||||||
| 78 | Sierra Oliver | ||||||||
| 43 | KC Quint | ||||||||
| 28 | 40:20 | Juana Meza | |||||||
| 90 | 40:22 | Ayla Clark | |||||||
| 93 | Kacie Simpson | ||||||||
| 131 | 40:40 | Margaret Cramer | |||||||
| 33 | 40:44 | Nichole Nelson | |||||||
| 52 | Nancy Saetern | ||||||||
| 22 | 41:01 | Samara Pearson | |||||||
| 74 | Alana Milligan | ||||||||
| 42 | 41:28 | Ashli Rich | |||||||
| 48 | 41:30 | Haille Mcdonna | |||||||
| 67 | 41:47 | Avery Jones | |||||||
| 119 | 41:50 | Jenny Jones | |||||||
| 40 | 42:16 | Madisen Bank | |||||||
| 66 | 42:33 | Caroline Grigsby | |||||||
| 49 | 44:15 | Karmann Ryeley | |||||||
| 83 | 44:41 | Grace Cooper | |||||||
| 202 | 45:30 | Lucia Rios | |||||||
| 47 | 46:15 | Mikayla Ciclu | |||||||
| 41 | 46:16 | Phoebe Williams | |||||||
| 32 | 46:17 | Deanna Valdez | |||||||
| 1 | 46:23 | Tabitha Carrier | |||||||
| 112 | 46:36 | Laura Carrier | |||||||
| 12 | 47:08 | Ally Drake | |||||||
| 91 | 48:28 | Nina Olson | |||||||
| 92 | 48:30 | Phoebe Cipparrone | |||||||
| 65 | 49:01 | Amaya Pauling | |||||||
| 51 | 49:03 | Taya York | |||||||
| 50 | 49:04 | Sierra | |||||||
| 94 | 49:54 | Shelby | |||||||
| 138 | 49:56 | Alli Burdett | |||||||
| 37 | 49:59 | Winter Clave | |||||||
| 120 | Maria Nicora | ||||||||
| 54 | 50:53 | Ashlyn Gray | |||||||
| 53 | 51:01 | Katelyn Workman | |||||||
| 201 | Krystal Oliver | ||||||||
| 86 | 51:10 | Erin Mankin | |||||||
| 69 | 51:38 | Saige Pyle | |||||||
| 24 | 51:39 | Lauren Berry | |||||||
| 21 | 51:21 | Schmek | |||||||
| 58 | 57:20 | Skler Gray | |||||||
| 59 | 57:21 | Julianna Gray | |||||||
It’s Fall (finally), and the Girls are great!
Wow! It’s our biggest season yet, with 112 girls participating. Thanks go out to our dedicated volunteer coaches who are using their passion for health and fitness to build strong healthy girls from the inside out. I am always amazed at the wisdom that our young girls display during the group processing that we do at Girls On The Run. During our most recent lesson, we were focused on Gratitude. One of the girls said, “When you are grateful for what you have, more good things can come to you….but, if you only focus on what you don’t have, that negative energy will bring you down.” I couldn’t have said it better myself! So….enjoy your lives today and give thanks for what you have. I think the saying goes something like….The key is not getting what you want, it’s wanting what you have. Enjoy your Fall
Girls On The Run for Fall 2009 – Get Involved!
The Girls On The Run team is getting ready to begin our Fall ’09 season. Coaches are being trained and new schools are being added! If you are interested in being a coach this season, contact Executive Director, Joanne Crosetti at 530/333-3500 right away. We need more coaches, so if you have time in the afternoon to volunteer, we’d love to talk with you! You will have FUN and you will help girls to discover and reach their potential. Our schools for this Fall ’09 Season will be: North Cow Creek, Grant, Manzanita, Rother, Cypress, and Evergreen.
5k Run at Lema Ranch
Eighty (80!) girls ran their first 5K run at the Lema Ranch trails to close our 2009 Spring Season!
It was a day of victory, celebration, and spirit! I am so proud of all you girls. 3 miles is a long distance – and each of these girls “toughed-it-out” and made it across the finish line.
I am also proud of the men and women who volunteered their time to come out on a cold morning to cheer for the girls, to run with them and keep them inspired to “go-the-distance.” They received nothing but the wonderful feeling that you get when you are there to see the glow on a girls face as she receives her medal and realizes that she is a runner and an athlete.
As coaches we are proud. As parents, we are proud. As community members, we are proud. As mentors, we are proud.
You girls are lit from within – and your light will shine on our community.
Thank you for being a part of the Girls On The Run family.